Adoption - Misconceptions and Answers

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Misconception #1: A mother who places her child in an adoptive home Is cold, and selfish. FALSE

Putting the welfare of her child above her own is a selfless and loving act.

Misconception #2: Birth parents have no control over who the adoptive parents will be. FALSE

Through open adoption. birth parents can actually chooses the adoptive family and meet with them prior to making a final decision.

Misconception #3: Birth parents will never know anything about their child after the adoption becomes final. FALSE

There is a range of openness in adoption today. While some couples prefer total secrecy; others choose full disclosure of identity and information. In an open adoption, letters, gifts, and photographs from the birth parents can be exchanged throughout a child's life.

Misconception #4: Adoption is irresponsible. FALSE

Many birth parents feel they must suffer the consequences of the "mistake" of conception by taking the responsibility for parenting and not passing it on to someone else. Making the responsible decision to do what is best for the child is a major step toward responsible parenting, even if that means placing the child in a loving home.

Misconception #5: The birth parents will eventually forget the child they released for adoption. FALSE

The birth parents do not forget their child but have the assurance that, based on the circumstances at the time, they made a mature and loving decision.

Misconception #6: Adopted children grow up to have serious psychological disorders. FALSE

Research has shown that there is no difference between the emotional stability of adopted or non-adopted children.

Adoption...

• Gives a baby the gift of life and allows the birth parents to go on with theirs.
• Allow the birth parents to plan their baby's future by taking an active role in choosing the adoptive family.

What are the rights of the father?

The birth father's rights are equal to the birth mother's. If the birth father chooses not to be a part of the adoption decision, a court ruling may terminate his parental rights.

Who pays the, legal fees? To assist you with adoption, you will need to hire an attorney or choose a private adoption agency who will handle the legal details.